Saturday, May 26, 2007

Dear Aunty Carolina

I am a 20 year old sister whose brother is having an affair.
My brother's fiancé, Amie, is a really nice person and she means a lot to me. We get along very well, which makes things really complicated for me. However, I don't want to break my brother's confidence by telling everything to Amie.
Is talking to my brother the best solution? I don't want to get between them, but I also feel bad if I don't express myself. I'm afraid of hurting him or Amie and that our relationship becomes awkward.
What should I do? If things are like this and they are only just engaged, how's it going to be in a few years?

3 comments:

The Tight Spot said...

Maybe you should try to sit down and talk to your brother just to understand what he pretends with that relationship. Don't worry to much! We believe as soon he gets to know that you know, he will react differently and he will begin to think deeply in what he's doing.
However, if he doesn't take any mesures then you should speak to Amie.

Joana e Marta.

no news is good news said...

Dear EF,
You should get a life of your own and stop screwing up other peoples'.
If you really must bud in, you should talk with your brother and wash your hands from the entire matter.

Nuno

The Ruler said...

dear sister,
talk to you brother and pressure him until he make a reasonable choice.
or you can always blackmail him by telling you will reveal the truth. though, be careful with amie's feelings.
(lamp,chandeleer,abat-jour)